Parents Certainly Are Misunderstood!

You thought you were happily smiling at your child from a hard
stadium seat or a hot packed auditorium,

But your child looked at your face and saw approval of him and joy
in what he was doing.

You thought that you were just patting him on the back or on the
head, or just ruffling his hair,

But your child cherished the warm loving touch and his heart was
brightened.  

You thought you were reading a bedtime story with all the funny and scary voices,

But your child enjoyed the fact you read every word even though he
had heard them a hundred times before.

You thought you were letting your child help paint the house even
though the paint got kind of runny and drippy in places,

But your child knew that you were working together as a
family and felt a sense of accomplishment as a family.

You thought you were singing silly songs or counting the cows on a
long boring trip,

But your child learned that it was fun being together no matter
where you were.

You thought you were spending a few minutes of your time by throwing
a ball in the back yard or baking some cookies,

But your child, who realized that your time is precious,
knew you were investing it in him.

You thought that you asked your child's opinion about something that
wasn't too important,

But your child thought you asked because his opinions and thoughts
were important.

You thought you were being a good host by inviting your child's
friends in for a cool snack on a warm summer day,

But your child knew that his friends were important to
you and always welcome in your home.

You thought the tears in your eyes went unnoticed when your child
accomplished an important goal in his life,

But your child knew that he was deeply imbedded in your
heart and you sensed his accomplishment.

You thought that the refrigerator was as good of a place as any for
hanging all the art work and "well done" papers that came home from
school,

But your child felt important when he came home from
school each day with something to show you and tack up in his personal hall of fame.

You thought you gave your child some simple chore or job to do and
told him, "Well done," with a smile when he did it,

But your child learned responsibility and began to
realize he could tackle even tougher things.

You thought you were helping a troubled restless child get some
sleep by fixing a cup of hot cocoa,

But your child felt that you were opening your heart around a
kitchen table and making all the problems a lot smaller.

You thought the vacation wasn't much of a success because the fish
didn't bite and the sun didn't shine,

But your child still remembers everything that happened and he still
laughs at all of the funny parts.

You thought you were just pointing out the words in the church hymn
book with your child's finger as he tried to sing along,

But your child learned that singing praises to God in
worship was important.

You thought you were just giving him a quick hug at a special moment
or "just because",

But your child carried it with him for a long time, because what you
really said was, "I'm proud of you!", or "I love you!"

You thought you were just giving him a little kiss on the cheek to
tell him good bye as he left for school,

But your child felt warm and loved because he knew there would be
another one waiting for him when he got home.

Come to think of it, there are a lot of times when parents
really are misunderstood.

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