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Point
of Decision
By Julie Jordan Scott
We
make decisions daily. Using the example of the author's classmate, a
top office movie star as an example, see how powerful each decision
truly can be.
How many decisions do
you make daily?
Think for a moment. Isn't everything a decision? Do I get up as soon
as the alarm goes off, or do I hit the snooze button? Do I wear my
pants today, or my skirt? Do we smile or scowl at people first thing
in the morning?
Every action and inaction we take every moment of everyday involves
making choices.
Glen Ridge High School Class of 1980 was noted for being the largest
class in the history of this suburban community. The majority of us
started school together as kindergartners and would graduate together
thirteen years later. Very important to the average Glen Ridge student
was being smart, good looking, and be active in a sport. One of my
classmates fit the bill quite well, until his wrestling injury in our
Junior Year sidelined him. The wrestling coach took Tom Mapother aside
and suggested he audition for "Guys and Dolls" the Junior
Class Play. At Glen Ridge, there was one play annually and the Junior
Class Play was it!
Tom could have said, "No, macho athletic guys do not audition for
musicals. What would the wrestling team think of me dancing around a
stage? Nah, not me!" but instead, Tom made the choice to
audition. He took action, got the lead and fell in love with
performing.
Being in close proximity to Manhattan, opportunities abounded. He
quickly landed a role in a Brooke Shields movie, "Endless
Love." It was a small role, playing one of Brooke's brothers. I
can not even remember who played Brooke's love. Can you?
The next movie we saw Tom in was "Taps" about kids in a
Military Academy. This was mostly a vehicle for Timothy Hutton,
recently successful in "Ordinary People". Tom took a small
role, but made the choice to play it with every ounce of his being. He
fully became a very intense, crazed cadet. He made the decision to
take a part which could have been insignificant and used it to flex
his acting muscle. To fully become the role assigned. He was so in the
moment, so completely engaging in the part, that it catapulted him to
the attention of many high powered Hollywood decision makers. Tom made
a choice and took action by taking a small role and grew it to
mammoth, life changing proportions.
After his breakthrough role in "Risky Business", my
classmate Tom Mapother fully became movie star, Tom Cruise. His
star-making movie could have become another coming of age teen flick,
but instead it is now a classic.
Last weekend I was one of many who sat in the highest grossing film of
the week, "Mission Impossible II". There was my classmate
getting an adrenaline rush while driving expensive cars and
motorcycles and rock climbing and hobnobbing with the rich and
influential in Sydney, Australia. While enjoying the entertainment
value of this movie, I recognized the power of the star's choices from
a wrestling injury in his Junior Year in high school up until today,
more than twenty years later.
As a producer, he was able to decide to film his movie in Sydney,
Australia, his wife's homeland. He made the choice to do most of his
own stuntwork. He was able to make this heartjumping movie on the
heels of another movie, "Magnolia" where he chose to play a
supporting role quite different this one, thus netting an Academy
Award nomination in the process.
What decisions are you making today? What will the combined impact of
your choices for today be upon you tomorrow, next month and next year?
Regardless of how seemingly insignificant the decision may be, think
about it. When you are faced with a choice today, consider it for an
extra second and then take action on your decision. Action to bring
you closer to realizing your ideal life.
Theodore Roosevelt said, "In any moment of decision, the best
thing you can do is the right thing. The worst thing you can do is
nothing." Deciding not to take action is like deciding to keep
the door locked to your self-induced prison. If your heart is racing,
if you feel restless, if the depth of feeling startles you deep in
your belly reading these words, the message to you is make powerful
choices. Take action.
Live your life as you were meant to live.
Julie Jordan Scott is a Life Purpose Coach who thrives on coaching
people to live passionately, everyday! Subscribe to Discovering Your
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